Expectations and needs between men and women
are not at all the same, and it is better to know the expectations of the other
sex since the relationship of two is a place where one can experience the
satisfaction of our deep needs.
Indeed, we all carry within ourselves the
need for a minimum of recognition of who we are, as well as the desire for a simple and shared happiness. Here is a list of what men look for in a
relationship.
They want to feel needed
The
feeling of being needed is a core human need. And we all need to feel needed
and wanted. A man must feel needed and appreciated. He must feel valued for
what he provides whether it is physical, psychological, financial or emotional.
A man feels needed, as that gives him self-worth. It makes them feel powerful
and very good inside, because it brings the feeling that they can conquer anything. I tell you all men want to be admired and desired, or
that they want to be complimented. These create opportunities for them
to be your heroes.
Seek help in tasks that only they can do - ask them to
pick you up at work when you work overtime.
Appreciate the little things he does. Tell your boyfriend or husband that you
love him often. A man wants to feel like a man.
And he feels like a man when
he’s needed and desired by a special someone, you. He loves the role of being a
protector. And men feel good about themselves when they see themselves as the
provider of your happiness and security.
They want respect
Everyone,
regardless of gender, wants to be respected. A man always expects his wife to respect him, both in his
presence and in his absence. Though every couple has their individual differences. Respect here applies to both his person
and his family as well as his efforts and involvement in your relationship.
By respecting his beliefs
and priorities, he gets the idea that you have a very high consideration of him
as a person and that he is a decent and
trustworthy man. Ask for his opinion on things of great
importance. This will prove that you value his ideas and that his words
are of great importance. Men feel respect as
love. If he feels rejected his
career or the things he believes that makes him a person will go through a hard
time and he would find it difficult to love you.
They want to be admired
As a woman needs compliments
to feel beautiful, loved and desired, a man needs recognition and appreciation
that will flatter his ego. Even the most handsome and smartest guys on the planet have their own insecurities.
Yes, men need recognition from their
partners for what they do. They want to know that their partner is proud
of them. This gives him a good feeling. Expressing admiration, you will
show him that the efforts are not in vain. Show him that you accept him for what he is
and you really love him.
Laugh at his jokes, funny or silly as they
are. Feel free to express your
wonder at his appearance, applaud his
prowess. If
he conquers something important in his career, be proud of him. Keep your
eyes glued to him during encounters. Make him feel the sexiest human being on the planet. Let him feel that you are proud of his
achievements.
They want freedom and space
Both man and woman need
their own space. Men
are deeply attracted to women who are independent and who know what they want. What
men want is to have their space and freedom.
Not having one's own space, makes a relationship
"sick" because one's individualism is lost and if one turns one's
life around a person without having hobbies, passions or plans, this can do a
lot of harm to the relationship.
So allow them their privacy. Most at time men have the thought that if they do not allow their
partners to have their space they might feel pressured and hurting. The
greatest gift a man needs from the one
who is close to him is a bit of "time for himself", to be alone and
to be able to pursue his own interests and hobbies.
They want emotional maturity
What
men want in a serious relationship is a partner they can trust emotionally, not
someone who makes drama, they need a
person who helps him to stay balanced offering him support and tranquility.
Who
needs someone who at the first sign of trouble, either gives up immediately or
begins the game of name-calling? You must make sure that when he cries in front of
you, you will not reject him or act badly. If you reject
him, or not able to support him when he
needs you most, he will no longer trust you with his emotions.
A man needs a mature, confident and emotionally stable
woman. He needs someone who understands empathy, who knows what can hurt
him, and with this person, he can build a relationship that is happy,
healthy and stable in the long run.
They want security.
A relation can only be
secured if the man can trust and be trusted or not
feel anxious or afraid, and believe the other person loves them. A
relationship where you believe your partner does not want to leave you.
The more a man feels that his partner will be there
for him no matter what, he will feel more ready and able to open up with
her. But security goes beyond just the fact that you will not leave him. The
security he should feel is related to knowing that you approve of him and where he is
professionally.
He feels safe and loved when you touch him in a non-sexual
way. He feels safe when he knows that he can take nights with his friend
away from you and without feeling the need to call him or text him every half an hour to check on him.
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They want Intimacy
Men and women connect through sex and communication, but
generally, women connect better through verbal communication and men connect
better with sex. This does not mean that men need to have sex with their
partner every day in order to feel connected.
A man will take the
initiative to have sex just to make sure that you are still sexually available
to him. Maintain the level of
attraction and learn when to seduce and heighten his desire.
Flirt and
fiddle with him. Be unpredictable and surprise him. Increase his
level of desire for you and let him go crazy by wearing fabrics that provoke
him and whet his appetite for you. Talk to your partner and ask him
specifically what makes him feel most loved.
Giving support
One important point to make your partner happy is to be
unique, is to support him; be a true friend and understand his plans and
projects, giving your individual contribution. He wants comfort and moral
support from his partner, which will help him recharge his batteries and cope with another equally tiring day. Also, know that a man draws his strength
from that of his partner, so even if he does not show his weakness or his
fears, always be there for him to support and appease him.
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