Masturbation is the stimulation of the
genital organs in order to obtain sexual pleasure, and may or may not reach
orgasm. Masturbation is usually done with the hands or some other part of
the body or by rubbing the genitals against some object.
The subject of masturbation has been considered a matter of taboo for a long time dating back to centuries. But science today reveals that giving
yourself pleasure brings physical and mental benefits, and no human being can
be oblivious to it.
In general, specialist say based on their research masturbation is
a perfectly normal and safe sexual behavior, for both men and women. In
fact, it is recommended for both men and women to explore themselves. In this
way, they will know what they like and what they do not like when it comes to
sex, which can aid in comfortability with their own sexuality. You will be more able to develop the strongest
and most satisfying sexual relationship. It can even be useful to reduce
stress. THEY SAY.
Although science is saying that masturbation is practically
normal but the evidence at hand says the opposite. Here are testimonies of
people who are struggling with masturbation.
Case 1
Hello, I am 20 years old and I am addicted to masturbation.
Since I was 11 years old I practice it and from 9 I look at pornography.
Sometimes I do it up to 10 times a day, I am very compulsive, I finish one and
after a while, I want another. Generally, I do it 6 to 8 times a day. The most I
did was 18 times. I am very excited almost all day, when I do I have no
problems, I always have a little of semen, but at night I cannot sleep because
my penis hurts a lot and the next day I wake up very tired, I am with fatigue
all the time, I also drop my hair a lot.I think it's because of my social
anxiety conditions and depression that I have, they make me stay a long time
locked, then I fall into this vice.
Case 2
I masturbated in excess until one day I saw that I
could not get an erection enough to penetrate a girl. Without realizing it
I felt very anxious, with a confused mind, loss of concentration, loss of
memory, a lot of anxiety that prevents me from socializing. For a month
and a half I have not masturbated or seen pornography or anything like
that. Since then I feel better but I still have a lot to recover. I
want you to give me advice to end it and if I should take something to restore
the brain transmitters.
Case 3
I read an answer in
which a boy who masturbates daily that masturbation is not bad: you should be
more careful with that type of answers, since the problems caused by excessive
masturbation is enormous (not so much in the women, since the losses of vital
substances are minor). There is a huge work to be done in sex education to
make children understand that their sexual energy is not unlimited and that
they must regulate their ejaculations to maintain health; If you had
suffered the terrible symptoms of excessive ejaculation like me, you would not
talk like that; It is not because you are a woman, but women cannot
understand these problems in the same way that a man cannot know what a birth
is, for example. In you, impotence is less absent.
I have to take a daily amount of hormone precursors, neurotransmitters and vitamins to restore my lost sexual energy because no one warned me of the risks when I was young. I do not want what happened to me to happen others: that boy needed an answer that would explain the risks of what he does, but now nothing can be done.
I have to take a daily amount of hormone precursors, neurotransmitters and vitamins to restore my lost sexual energy because no one warned me of the risks when I was young. I do not want what happened to me to happen others: that boy needed an answer that would explain the risks of what he does, but now nothing can be done.
It currently difficult to tell how much is normal and how much is
excessive when it comes to the issue of masturbation. We should take note that the practice of masturbation is an individual thing and not within sexual relationship or within the context of
marriage between a man and a woman.
Masturbation tends
to be excessive because it is accessible and cheap to practice, which results
in negative effects. it is not the act itself that causes some of these
effects; they are a product of the overproduction of sex hormones and
neurotransmitters occasioned by frequent masturbation. For your information masturbation, is highly addictive, could lead to
Fatigue
Memory loss, hair loss
Blurred vision
Pains in the penis
Premature ejaculation
Fatigue
Memory loss, hair loss
Blurred vision
Pains in the penis
Premature ejaculation
Difficulty in performing real sexual intercourse
Tiredness
Stress
Headache
Premature ejaculation
Semen leakage
Reduced orgasm
Loss of sex drive towards the opposite sex
Interest in Homosexuality, Transgender
Lower back pain
Impotence
Anxiety
Mood swings
Insomnia
Lack of concentration,
Brain Fog
Increased feelings of Loneliness, Shyness, and
Desire for isolation
Increased feelings of Guilt
Depression, Less Happiness
Loss of motivation
Suicidal thoughts and tendencies
Postorgasmic illness syndrome
Erectile dysfunction
Erectile dysfunction
Masturbation
is a controversial subject because of the proliferation of promiscuity, which
comes through the media and encourages young people and the general
public. Today, everything becomes "normal", without any
fault. On the other hand, doctors and psychologists ?? no knowledge
of ?? say that it is "normal" to practice masturbation without
even thinking about the moral and psychological damage done to people's lives.
Those
who masturbate are almost always involved in pornography or some kind of
reprehensible thinking. Who can masturbate regularly without the use of images
of nudity, sex scenes, eroticism, sexual fantasies, etc.? At this point
the thing becomes complicated, because, in many cases, it becomes an addiction
that can be equated with that of some drugs, bringing physical, emotional and
spiritual harm. In more serious cases it turns out to be the fuel for a
person to pursue the sexuality in a way that unnatural and unacceptable, such
as sex outside of marriage and all kinds of distorted use of sexuality that the
world supports and finds normal.
We
cannot close our eyes to masturbation, as it can often cause psychological,
pathological or sexual compulsion, causing those who practice it to close
themselves off as escape, and can thus use this medium as an escape to problems
and tensions. Often, poorly resolved affective relationships can lead to
masturbation by the lack of love of father and mother, sexual abuse, phobias,
and so on. This means that, in many cases, psychological help is necessary
to overcome addiction.
Everyday people share their testimonies about how masturbation has affected their
life badly. The truth is that masturbation is unhealthy but people want to hear
good things about their bad habits so they try so hard to numb their conscience
with absurd justifications like “it’s normal” and “everybody does it.
Please for your information there is nothing normal about masturbation, it will only bring you pain and misery. Please this has got nothing to do with religion it is practical common sense.
If masturbation is accompanied by anxiety, guilt, uncontrollable compulsion, or prevents the person from having another form of relationship sexual or the above mentioned problems, means that you should seek professional help with a sexology specialist. If also you just started please kill it before it kills you.
If masturbation is accompanied by anxiety, guilt, uncontrollable compulsion, or prevents the person from having another form of relationship sexual or the above mentioned problems, means that you should seek professional help with a sexology specialist. If also you just started please kill it before it kills you.
