Why are some happy in their marriage, and why is there such a difference and what is the reason for the happiness of some married couples and constant conflicts with others? Some are constantly crying and complaining? For what reason do men run after one woman and not even look at another? And what is the secret of the wife, which makes the husband pamper her, says compliments, does not forget about gifts and remembers even her most favorite flowers.
There are many women who have remained alone and now complain about their hard life. From them, for various reasons, their husbands left. And they already have a new family, and
There are women who never leave their husbands and their husbands can’t live without them, what is so special about them? Read carefully, then evaluate yourself, consider things carefully and start to make changes.
1. A wife should always be friendly. A good wife must be a friend to her husband. She must be a comforter and shoulder to lean on in difficult times. Smile to her husband, even if the mood is bad, a little pretense, in this case, is needed. No matter how tired or exhausted, you smile, to show that you are glad to see him. Some women are fond of putting on sad mood as result of thinking due to their temperament. In turn, this makes them feel tired and exhausted because this character takes a lot of mental strength and energy. If you are that type trying to find meaning to life, I think you should put a stop to it, this will only hurt your marriage. It your duty not to infest your home with sorrow and sadness but rather with happiness and joy
2. Always remain beautiful in his
presence. This does not mean that you have to walk at home in ball gowns. Be
neat in appearance, nice clothes, beautiful, not tattered, that's what your man
should see. Most women dress up for other women, it's known for outsiders, and those
they meet at work. Remember when he goes out he sees other women dressed
elegant and beautiful, he will start to compare. If at home his wife's dressing is terrible. Remember that if
comparison sets in it will not go in your favor and this means your marriage is in trouble. Therefore, be neat
and tidy, beautiful in character and in body.
If you truly love your husband, wear things for him in which he sees you every
day. This will make him understands he is important to you and you respect his
choice.
3. Do not forget about cleanliness. “Cleanliness is next to godliness they say”. Cleanliness should be a habitual act of maintaining a hygienic environment coupled with good personal health. It is said that disease and dirt are bed fellows they go hand in hand. Therefore as a wife make the effort to keep you home clean, not only clean but well organized. Your husband will love you for that and even if he does not your kids are watching they are learning. An untidy wife will soon get her husband bored because he will think that she is lazy and who wants to live with a lazy woman. Moreover, relatives or guests who will ever come to you will notice everything and will tell everyone that there is a complete mess in your home. Around everything should be clean because dirt has the property of accumulating and influencing your marriage and your mood. Make sure to keep your home clean as a responsible wife and mother.
3. Do not forget about cleanliness. “Cleanliness is next to godliness they say”. Cleanliness should be a habitual act of maintaining a hygienic environment coupled with good personal health. It is said that disease and dirt are bed fellows they go hand in hand. Therefore as a wife make the effort to keep you home clean, not only clean but well organized. Your husband will love you for that and even if he does not your kids are watching they are learning. An untidy wife will soon get her husband bored because he will think that she is lazy and who wants to live with a lazy woman. Moreover, relatives or guests who will ever come to you will notice everything and will tell everyone that there is a complete mess in your home. Around everything should be clean because dirt has the property of accumulating and influencing your marriage and your mood. Make sure to keep your home clean as a responsible wife and mother.
4. A neat woman.The home is to be neat and clean and
this also applies to your body, your husband,
and your kids. A good wife should be able to manage her home very well making
sure that her surrounding is clean and pleasant to the eye. A man should not
live in dirt and it therefore the duty of the wife to see to it that dirty
things are never thrown around the house
or they are not attended to, it makes a man feel disgusted, and it will make
him far from admiring you. Some Women try to keep their home clean and
sometimes they forget about themselves. She stops going to the shower because she has no time, she is tired,
and her hair is washed rarely, for your information no man likes to look at a
wife who has unwashed hair. Do not turn into a terrible woman by changing in appearance
and character. Never give up, even if you are now experiencing some difficult in your life. You are a unique person, with your own merits and talents.
Therefore, you should always be neatly dressed. You are only 30 but you are
looking like a 50 year old. Do thing that
will help maintain your attractiveness
and your beauty
5 Be a good and kind woman. Men want
good wives likewise women too want good men. A wife is a friend first, a lover
and most important, a maid. A good and kind wife is the one who remains
positive in all circumstance and never nags or complain no matter the
situation. A complaining wife is always not satisfied no matter what the
husband does she is not pleased such a woman will make her husband dread the very place they call home. A lover
who takes care of her home and adores her husband, looking beautiful and always smiles. She is good to her relatives
and that of her husband's and grateful for the little things the husband does
for her. A good wife also makes the effort
to keep her home clean, not only clean but well organized. Do not be a
dismissive wife who diminishes the desire or opinion of your husband. Men are
displeased with a bad wife. A make will
prefer to work overtime or go with friends to a bar just to avoid a bad and
nagging wife at home. Do not put up an attitude that will keep your husband
away from home it will never be in your favor.
6. A good wife likes to cook. A
good wife likes to cook for the family not because she thinks she's a cook, but
she's just trying for her husband and for the sake of the children. And she
does everything with love. This is very important. To think about the health of
the whole family is a woman's direct duty and should be one of the top most
priority.It is said that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.
Family bond can increase greatly if the family site at table together, not only that, it is a great teaching tool to
instill healthy eating habits into your kids as parents.
Cooking at home will help to cut down cost, always eating outside is not only expensive it comes with health challenges. As a
wife, it will be so helpful if you know
many recipes, this will help you vary what you cook every time. May be your
husband’s mother always cooked a dish,
and you husband misses it and dreams about trying it. Learn the recipe from
your mother-in-law and also prepare this dish for you husband. How pleasant it
will be if you know your husband's favorite dishes and pamper him with this
delicious delicacy. Do not be that type of a woman that always order food from
outside for the family ,your husband and kids will not appreciate you much.
7. Let him lead. Let your husband be
the leader of the family. Some women always wish to be in the herm of affairs
taking over the position of the man.He is the man you have to allow him to lead do not stand in his way. He is the one who
is going to be held accountable if anything goes wrong in the home. Do not
constantly take a stand just to prove what you are saying is the truth. He will
think that you are infringing on his authority and it can hurt him so much.
Just play your weakness to your advantage, do not compete with your husband, he
is the boss. Never try to alter his decision or criticize it but act softly, cunningly and affectionately,
and then you will achieve everything that you want. Change your point of
view and respect his decision, you will become a wise woman.
8. Do not cheat on him.
Infidelity can wreck your marriage. A cheating
wife is an untruthful woman, she is deadly and poisonous. You would be breaking
you promise if you are in a relationship and you are being involved with someone
else. Now if you do cheat and you are not caught it has the tendency of eating
you up. Two common effects of repressing guilt are anxiety and depression. But
if you are caught you husband can never trust you again. A relationship where
the is no trust it will not know happiness or it will not last. Men do
not forgive adultery and are not so stupid not to notice that the wife has
become a harlot. Relations on the side will definitely not make you happy a
person, it will just destroy your life and all the good that was between you
and your husband. If you think your husband is not good enough for you why did
you marry him? Since you have chosen him,
it means that he is better than all. Therefor the is no need to change him for
something worse. Your man wants you and he is not ready to share you with
another. If you think that being an obstinate wife is good, then you are
mistaken. Be an obedient wife, give your husband the opportunity to bear the
full responsibility of you. And where there is love, happiness will definitely
settle there.
Conclusion
But do not treat yourself too
strictly, just slightly correct your behavior, and everything will change. Your
husband will appreciate your dignity and stop grumbling.
Happiness lies within you, not outside. You can always turn into a contented woman, then everyone around you will begin to notice this. Even if you are tired of being a peacemaker in your own family, do not give up, you cannot give up because you are the source of love.
Happiness lies within you, not outside. You can always turn into a contented woman, then everyone around you will begin to notice this. Even if you are tired of being a peacemaker in your own family, do not give up, you cannot give up because you are the source of love.
