Learn to appreciate you spouse effort and sacrifices.Humans are imperfect beings they are bound to making mistakes this should not be taking overboard .
You need to have a big heart which is ready to forgive and let go of the past. Have some quality time together and learn to understand each other .
Honesty and sincerity are good virtues to emulate.Avoid the influence of other people in your marriage
Honesty and sincerity are good virtues to emulate.Avoid the influence of other people in your marriage
Having undue pride might also prompt a person to belittle a mate’s feelings. A proud individual attempts to elevate himself by constantly putting others down. He might do so by means of name-calling or negative comparisons. Consider the example of the Pharisees and scribes of Jesus’ day. When anyone—even a fellow Pharisee— expressed an opinion that differed from that of these proud individuals, they resorted to name-calling and derogatory remarks.
The act of belittling may be conscious or unconscious.Consider two of the reasons why you might fail to apply this advice.
One is that you may lack insight into the mind, or the feelings, of your mate. For example, if your spouse is more distraught over some issue than you are, you might tend to say, “You’re just overreacting.” Your intention may be to help your mate see the problem in perspective. However, few people are comforted by such.
Both wives and husbands need to know that the people whom they love understand and empathize with them.
Conflict is the result of personality differences.
FALSE. Personalities do not conflict--it is people's behavior that conflicts. Too often we use "personality conflict" as an excuse to do nothing about the conflict.
FALSE. Personalities do not conflict--it is people's behavior that conflicts. Too often we use "personality conflict" as an excuse to do nothing about the conflict.
Division with your spouse will pain and upset your whole life, Just as you do not wish to hurt your own self and are quick to care for your own wounds; so you should take notice of any break in the peace of your marriage and quickly seek to heal it. Fighting chills love, fighting makes your spouse undesirable to you in your mind.
Wounding is separating; to be tied together through marital bonds while your hearts are estranged is to be tormented. To be inwardly adversaries, while outwardly husband and wife turns your home and delight into a prison.
